It's Not Easy, But It's Fun. F*ck it.
It's not a 'risk' when we unequivocally believe in ourselves
You’re not lost, you’re conditioned. Conditioned to believe that risks where you unequivocally bet on yourself… are risks at all.
Welcome to society… Where fear-based tactics attempt to wreak havoc over our most natural inclination to be ever-expanding love balls of self-reflection and learning.
You’re not lost, you’re conditioned. Go look in the mirror, say, “there you are!” and then self-reflect and self-connect which parts of you resonate with your soul and which are conditioned.
Then in every situation you’re in, 1st ask yourself, ‘what are my boundaries?’
Once you know your boundaries, the 2nd question to ask yourself in any situation is, ‘does this cross my boundaries?’
Then, HONOR YOUR BOUNDARIES. Regardless if your answer was yes or no.
Notice how you feel more confident?
Watch what happens next.
Suddenly, a lil upgrade pops in. You go back to that mirror and you say, ‘yay, thank you so much, self, we did it!’ — Ta daaa, you’re in alignment.
Boundaries, confidence, alignment. The 3 core methods to activate Self Friendship.
Then you carry on completing this victorious cycle. Perpetually taking ‘risks,’ betting on yourself, and perpetually upgrading because of it.
One day, you’ll find yourself crying tears of joy on a regular basis in gratitude and amazement of your glorious world you’ve consciously created.
I already do, and I’m only in the middle of the beginning.
It is my first rodeo, but I’ve been practicing A LOT.
Taking ‘risks’ is the ultimate satisfaction to my most recent favorite question,
After activating the 3 core methods by recognizing and honoring our boundaries, becoming more confident, and upgrading into alignment with the person we want to become, we’re then in the momentum to take action in our daily practice of embracing, understanding, and enjoying ourselves— Self Friendship.
Grounded in our empowered roots, we can more naturally take ‘risks.’
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