Love is Easy, IN Love is Self Friendship.

Love ISN'T Enough.

I’ve been self-reflecting and self-connecting a lot on the concept of romantic partnerships. Love!!!!

(Planit Butter: Party of One! Self Friendship in Action, 2024)

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It’s commonly discussed that we need to love ourselves first before entering a healthy romantic relationship.

On Planit Butter, I’m here to offer, through the lens of Self Friendship… we actually need to be absolutely fucking enamored with ourselves, utterly IN love with ourselves, that the ONLY possible upgrade, expansion, is another human who is equally enamored with themselves. This creates a united expansion of one another. It exposes us to parts of ourselves that are simply not accessible on our own, fueling even more of our Self Friendship practice. 1+1=8. Partnership.

How do we become absolutely fucking enamored with ourselves, utterly IN love with ourselves? We Fokiss [Blizzard’s Blictionary term]—which means giving our full attention toward something we love.

Focus, [English Dictionary term] which means pay particular attention to, is inevitable…